Motivational Monday #305: What if?

 

What if is a question that we probably ask ourselves frequently. My question to that question for us is the conclusion that follows in our thoughts, because that leads to our actions. 

When we as ourselves "What if?" does what follows that something positive or something that feeds into doubt? I hope it's all positive and we are pursuing our goals the best ways possible. I do know, at least sometimes what follows "What if?" tends to be the worst case scenario. That may come from a place of preservation, doubt or fear; or a combination of the three. 

I want to encourage us today to evaluate our "What if's?" from a place of strength. What if you do and succeed with your goal? What if you do and you don't ger the target you were after...what did you learn? I have found that our worst case scenario typically only lives in our minds and rests in fiction. 

What if: we made the call? had the conversation? tried that new thing? did the practice when no one is watching? 

What if we reached for our potential and believed in ourselves; truly believed in ourselves now and who we can become. 

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  1. AnonymousJuly 22, 2025 at 8:18 AM

    Love the new perspective on this! "What if" does tend to lead to fear and doubt. I love the challenge to switch what follows to goals, dreams, opportunities, success! Thank you for sharing this!

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