Motivational Monday #262: Bitter or Better

Will you face challenges or adversity in your life? YES.

What happens next is up to us. We have 2 choices...we can become Bitter from what is happening or we can choose to become Better. 

Can it feel unfair...choose better. 

Can it seem that the light at the end of the tunnel is too far away...choose better. 

Can it feel like you don't have the strength or are equip to win...choose better. 

Is this hard...100% yes. 

Is it worth it...100% yes.

Proud moments in our life never begin or end with bitterness. 

Hard is a guarantee; you can do hard. You can grow into what/who is needed to achieve whatever is in front of you. Not easy, but always worth it. 

Make your choices today in small and large ways to choose better. You'll thank yourself for it. Bitter is not a companion you want with you.


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