Motivational Monday #316: Head & Heart Together

 

We have both; we should strive to decide, live & act with both. 

We are created with both for a reason. If we only us one of them we can be off balanced in life & decision making. Them being in harmony with each other is how we were created to be. Using logic & data are key; paired with empathy & Emotional Intelligence they are a super power. 

Most of us would say we lean one way more than the other. Just knowing that is being self aware of our tendencies so we can look to balance ourselves out.  Framing our hearts & minds to look at all sides is a strength since everyone we are around & present with leans different ways as well. 

Analyze the data rationally paired with empathy to gain perspective. Then we have a balanced process for decisions which is a asset of strength personally & professionally.  

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